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When we tell them to “wait”, they are being told to NOT pursue women.

It is true that we need to trust and wait on God, yet as a man, he must pursue the women he desires trusting and waiting on God WHILE he pursues them.

  • Ella says:
    December 6, 2011 at 4:07 pm

    Hi Jamie, thanks so much for the beautiful PRAYER, I appreciate it a lot!
    Honestly, I’m having a tough time these days…but I choose not to get sad, aside from my “love life”, I’m also having difficulties with my father…
    God bless us all! and I just wanna thank our Father God for all His mercy and grace.

  • Jamie says:
    December 5, 2011 at 6:51 am

    Thabang, I am sorry that we can’t post your email address here. You have a couple of options: 1) you can share some of your issues here and perhaps someone my have some ideas for you; 2) you can connect with one of our online mentors who you can talk with to find some possible options. You can find a Mentor Request Form at experience/talk-to-a-mentor.

  • thabang motloung says:
    December 4, 2011 at 6:53 am

    im having trouble with ladies if anyone can help plz contact me if u have the biggest advice [it is the policy of this site not to publish personal contact information]

  • love jesus says:
    December 3, 2011 at 10:56 pm

    Beautifully written. I love the part that says to start practicing having Jesus feel the void that so many women have in their hearts. There are more screwed up childhoods than good ones, so its really no surprise that there are so many bad boys who have a whole lot of broken women wanting love from them. The good thing about life, and the world, is that for every problem, there is a solution. The solution for every problem is God…I myself as a widowed christian, has clung to a bad boy on and off for a year now. We have amaising passion but I feel so guilty sleeping with him without a commitment. Sex is such a beautiful sacred thing that should be enjoyed by two people who are married..I don’t know why I’am so weak in this area, but I do know that their has to be a solution, and the solution that always seems to give me power when I get weak is Jesus Christ.

  • Jamie says:
    December 2, 2011 at 9:17 pm

    Heavenly Father, I thank You for helping Ella to be free from the destructiveness of this relationship. I pray Lord that You would heal her heart from the wounds that she has received from him and help her to develop a deeper love and dependence on You first and foremost. Lord we also pray for the man that You have planned for her. I pray that You would protect him from the things that would distract his heart from knowing You. Draw these two together in Your perfect timing and in Your perfect way. Amen.

    Thanks for sharing your story Ella!

  • Hugh says:
    December 2, 2011 at 5:39 am

    The glamour and thrill of teh bad boy is like candy to kids. Its a rush that doesn’t last and most women do not realise that what they actually are is simply the next victim. The bad boy is a “User” and thinks only of himself. His low self esteem has resulted in a vaneer of anger and exhibitionism that tries to pass itself off as confidence. In short, teh bad boy is a weak man who charms, manipulates and eventually intimidates his partners. By the time most women wake up, these guys are already onto their next victim.

    You have been warned – Drama is not love.

  • Ella says:
    November 29, 2011 at 8:40 pm

    Well, I finally ended my two year relationship with a man that I could say has a poor character and attitude. I can relate to every word this blog says, it was like it’s talking about me. It takes courage and honesty to do it and you only need Jesus for you to be able to decide and trust Him completely with our love life. God knows best! God bless all!

  • Jamie says:
    November 18, 2011 at 9:53 am

    Hi Suzana, I totally get your struggle. When you give yourself to someone in love it is very painful when they let you down and hurt you like that. When you are at a place like this it can be helpful to do some deep soul searching to figure out where you are at. Tell me, what is it that you love about him? What is it about him that makes you want to spend your life in relationship with him? Knowing what you do about him, how do you think he contributes to helping you become more than what you could by yourself (intellectually, emotionally, physically, relationally, spiritually)? What does he have to offer as a father to your future children?

    Some of these questions can be tough to answer. You need to be brutally honest with yourself and not be swayed by emotions alone. You are a smart girl and for your health, and the health of your future family you should make sure that this is the man you want to hitch your wagon to. It may be helpful to go through these questions with someone. You may have a trusted friend or a pastor or a counselor. You may even want to talk with one of our online mentors who can help be a sounding board for you. You can find our Mentor Request Form at experience/talk-to-a-mentor. And as you answer these questions ask God to help you. He will help you answer these questions honestly and He will direct your decisions as you come up with the answers.

    Lord God, I pray for Suzana. She is hurting right now and confused about this relationship. I pray that You would help her to get some clarity and know what Your best is for her. Give her the courage to walk in Your path and trust in You for the strength to do so. Give her peace and comfort so that she is able to think clearly. In Jesus’ name, amen.

  • Claire Colvin says:
    November 18, 2011 at 9:49 am

    Suzana, I am so sorry to hear that your heart is breaking. I have no idea why he would wait 19 months to tell you that he doesn’t actually want to get married. If you want to marry and he doesn’t there isn’t a compromise on that. It’s kinda like having a baby – there’s no middle ground or halfway. Although I am sad to hear it, I am not surprised to hear that you’re having trouble eating, sleeping or working. You are in mourning. You are greiving for the life you thought you were going to have. The bad news is that it’s going to take time, the good news is that grief does change over time. It’s not always going to feel as awful as it does right now but this is going to hurt.

    There is a shred of kindness in what he has done although I’m sure it doesn’t feel that way right now. He has been honest with you, even though he knew that it would hurt you. He has given up the thing that he wanted most (living with you) in order to be honest with you. I think that means that he really does care about you, he just can’t marry you. Do not doubt that the love you have is real. The reality that you don’t have a future together doesn’t change that. You were not stupid, you did not create a fantasy in your head. You were (are) in love. The question is, what happens now?

    First things first: get some support. Do you have close friends you can talk to you? Family that can help you? You’re going to need some support. Second, you need to figure out where you’re going to live. If he’s already moved out are you able to keep the apartment on your own? Is the paperwork in your name? Is it in the budget? Having a place to stay will make everything easier. I know that moving is probably the last thing you want to do right now but you might find that staying there in the place with all your memories is very painful. A fresh start can be very healing. Third, are you able to take a few days off of work to give yourself some time to grieve? If so, do so. If you can’t, go to your manager and at least let them know that you are dealing with a family crisis. Let them know that you will do your very best to be professional and productive at work, but that things are messy for you right now.

    I wish I could tell you that he is coming back, but it sounds like he feels pretty sure of his decision. I’m not saying it’s impossible, I have not met him, I don’t know him or what he is thinking, but it sounds like he has been thinking about this for a long time and he’s pretty sure of what he wants. You also know what you want and you are at an impasse. I don’t know why he would propose to you if he doesn’t want to get married, but that’s a question for another day.

    When the heat of this has passed a little I would also encourage you to take a very good look at the kind of man he is. Ask you friends and family what they thought of him. From what you’ve said he sounds very controlling which, to be perfectly honest, scares me. You are not a little child who needs to be told what to do. You are a strong and accomplished woman. You’re a doctor for goodness sake! That takes brains and strength and perseverance and endurance. Those degrees don’t grown on trees. You worked for that, you worked HARD for that. You did it, and that’s an accomplishment that will always be yours. You’re a grown-up, you should be able to go out of state or out of the country when you want to. In a healthy relationship both partners work to help the other be the best possible version of themselves. They are are there to support you in your weaknesses and celebrate your strengths. A good partner expands your horizons, they make your world bigger not smaller.

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